By: Mike Parker

In this article we are going to look at how women and men go about trying to attract each other. It is a emotions that we both are using to get the attention of the other.

To attract a women you have to feel a chemistry between you. No matter about anything else. You can do things to get noticed. Big muscles, money, lifestyle, even being famous, but after your noticed there has to be a chemistry between you and her.

Being attracted to someone is an emotion that is hard to get past. Attraction between a man and a women comes about in different ways. Women will tease a man by being playful. Men use humor to get a women's attention. Humor is an emotion that brings out a positive reaction in a women when it is done right.

Humor tells her you are a fun person to be around. It is saying here I am and you should get to know me better. A women is great at this because she can flirt and have fun. Flirting ad having fun are a good combination for a women and she is saying she is attracted to you.

For a man the balance is not in overdoing it and coming across as a goofball or maybe even cocky or arrogant. In real life teasing with humor involves making a provocative comment in a humorous way. Imagine a guy pretending not to pay much attention to a woman by not looking at her directly. He says, "I think you might have spent too much time on your hair." The body language and the comment are provocative and teasing, but rather cold and humorless.

Now imagine the same body language with the comment, "I think if you had spent any more time with your hair, it would qualify as a career." Then he looks at her squarely. " Though the result is good. I have to admit that I normally don't date women who are so full of themselves." Then he cracks a smile.

That combination of teasing body language and verbal comment with a warm poking-fun kind of humor will often create a sense of strong attraction in the other person. The guy seems provocative, different, challenging, and perhaps fun. Those qualities arouse the emotions that are the heart of attraction.

As you can see if you want to attract a women you have to get her attention. Once you have done that you will soon know if she feels an attraction to you and you to her.

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By: Scott Patterson

Your sex life is a vital part of a relationship. If you're able to keep things fun and exciting, then it'll be easy to please your woman

Unfortunately, there are many times when the sizzle in the bedroom has gone out of a relationship. Even if you're with the most attractive women in the world, you'll face some moments when you need to make things more exciting.

That's why experimenting with sex games can be an exciting way to spice things up with your women.

For instance, here are 3 great sex games you can try:

1- Peeping Tom & Jane

Ok this tip might be a little extreme...But if you can try a bit of voyeurism with your woman, I guarantee you'll discover a unique to turn each other on.

In many major cities and urban centers, there are many special clubs and groups where you can go to watch other couples (and individuals) do various acts of sex. The only thing that's required is to go to one of these places and watch what happens here.

By observing other couples doing stuff, you'll turn each other on from the excitement. In fact, being a voyeur you'll probably make things really interesting. You might not make it back to the bedroom before you're practically tearing each other's clothes off.

2- Baby you can drive my car

Having sex in a car is a great way to have a thrilling time.

Whether it's the change of venue or the thrill of getting caught, getting it on in car is quite an aphrodisiac. This is especially true if it's in a somewhat public place.

While you might have a nice home nearby, it's still thrilling to pull over into a secluded area and jump into the backseat for a quicky.

3- Make all her fantasies come true

Every man and woman has different fantasies about their sex life. In this particular sex game, you take turns fulfilling one another's fantasies.

It works like this...

Each of you writes down a list of the things which turn you on. Then you exchange these "fantasy diaries". Once this happens, it's up to the other partner to fulfill these fantasies.

Now there might be certain fantasies which don't jibe with your personal code of ethics. If that is the case, you can simply ignore the ones you don't like and move on to ones which you know will provide a lot of excitement.

Bringing sex games into your relationship is an excellent way to make things more fun and exciting. If you can experiment with the 3 sex games I described in this article, you'll discover that it's quite easy to spice things up.

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Recommended by carnally creative men and women, some of that are hot how-tos, while others recount sizzling booty experiences

1. On a hot night, lick the salt off each other's sweaty bodies.
2. Take a steamy shower together…but with the lights out.
3. Stay silent all through the action and just listen to your breathing.
4. Make missionary sex more passionate by wrapping your feet around his lower legs and ankles and pulling up toward him as he thrusts downward.
5. Spooning has a tame rep, but it's incredibly hot: I can get really deep, play with my girl's breasts, and feel her backside buck against my hips. It's total-body pleasure.
6. Sit on his lap totally naked…except for boots. Cowboy boots, stiletto boots, motorcycle boots, whatever — they're so powerful and sexy.
7. The perfect oral-sex technique: Pretend his hard-on is an ice cream cone that's melting quickly. You have to keep licking at different angles, swirling the melting drops upward and putting your entire mouth around the scoop on top.
8. Hold his arms over his head during woman-on-top and nibble the skin between his armpit and elbow.
9. Try standing-up-against-a-balcony sex. There's a reason this booty style is a staple of every porno flick and X-rated photo spread.
10. I went out with this chick who capped off an oral-sex session by licking the area between my balls and shaft. It was out of this world. In seconds, I was hard all over again.
11. Lie naked against your man, your back to his chest, and encourage him to whisper all of his dirty desires to you.
12. Have him undress you slowly and take the time to kiss and caress each body part as it comes into view.
13. Get your guy to skip the in-and-out thrusts and ask him to "stir" with his penis. He'll stimulate every steamy inch of you.
14. Put a little bit of lubricant on your hands and intertwine your fingers. Then grip your man's penis with your palms, and move your hands up and down his shaft.
15. Let me know you're not wearing panties by taking my hand and placing it under your skirt.
16. Just as I reach peak, pump my balls in your hand in time with the contractions of my orgasm.
17. Have your guy lie on top of you and enter you from behind, then close your legs so his legs are outside of yours. It's the perfect position for G-spot stroking.
18. Pull off the road and find a secluded spot, then get busy in the car. It's even hotter if you can hear the traffic, because you feel like you might be caught at any moment.
19. Turn on a fan while rubbing him down with ice cubes. The fan makes the ice feel extracold against his skin, and when you put your mouth on his body, he'll get goose bumps from the sudden shivery sensation.
20. Command your man to remain still during doggie-style, and move your butt in slow circles.
21. Hold my hands gently while you're doing me in woman-on-top. It's another way for me to feel all the incredible sexual energy coursing through your body.
22. Have your man caress your clitoris with his ring finger, which is less likely to feel as rough or rigid as his index or middle finger.
23. Right before I enter you doggie-style, spread your legs as far as you can and reach behind so you pull your cheeks apart.
24. Do me in my office on company time. I know it's cliché, but every day that I spend sitting at my desk, it crosses my mind at least 20 times.
25. While your guy is giving you oral sex, take his hand and show him how to stroke you at the same time.
26. There's this yoga pose my girl does when we're having woman-on-top sex: She sits on her folded legs and leans over so her breasts rest on her knees, her arms stretched out in front of her. Her grip is so tight, I see stars.
27. Get your guy to kiss your V zone the way he'd kiss your mouth, massaging his lips against it rather than using his tongue to stimulate you. The softer touch is a lot more arousing.
28. Ride him reverse-cowgirl style while he grips your ankles.
29. Every guy. no matter how old he is, secretly fantasizes about playing student to a mature, more experienced teacher. Suggest this role-playing game one night and you'll make his high-school dream come true.
30. Take oral sex one step further by cupping my family jewels in your mouth one at a time.
31. Put on a little show for me with your thong by bending over and sliding it up and down between your cheeks.
32. You know that soft spot where my neck meets my hairline? Sit behind me, and run your tongue along it.
33. While we twist the sheets, pull the cups of your bra down just enough so that your nipples peek out.
34. Open your legs wide so your guy can go deep. Bring them together… then spread them again. Constantly shifting the position of your legs will switch up the sensations your guy experiences.
35. Do it stretched out on the couch. The smaller space makes you feel so contained, like you're melded together.
36. Get a Brazilian bikini wax, then torture your guy by straddling his chest and telling him he can look… but not touch.
37. Don't just show up in bed in a sexy new piece of lingerie — model it for me. It's not the garment that gets me but the way it clings to your curves.
38. Let your guy know what feels good during sex by digging your nails into his skin when he hits all the right spots.
39. I'm not keen on asking for directions, so when I go down on you, just put your hands on my head and guide me like you're steering a car.
40. When you're on top and you can sense your guy is ready to blow, lean forward and treat him to a full-on mouth kiss. The sensation of your tongue pulsing in his mouth will mimic what's going on down below.
41. Lean over me and let your nipples graze my lips. Then pull back a bit so I can watch them get hard.
42. Instead of pleasing each other simultaneously during 69, let's take turns: One person goes to town while the other groans and moans about how good it feels.
43. You know how you put lotion on your body every a.m. before getting dressed? One morning, hand me the bottle and let me spread some across your calves, thighs…everywhere.
44. Come to bed in old-fashioned bikini panties — the kind with the satiny fabric that clings to your cheeks and makes your legs look long and sleek.
45. Hold my penis like a joystick: your fist wrapped around the base and your thumb pumping the ridge on the underside where the head and the shaft meet. That spot is like a blast-off trigger.
46. E-mail me the URL of an X-rated Web site that contains words or pictures that really make you tingle.
47. Instead of propping one leg on each of my shoulders during missionary, keep your legs together and put them both on one shoulder. I can hold them for leverage and get inside you so deep.
48. The faster you bounce up and down during woman-on-top, the more your breasts will jiggle…a sight that I live for.
49. I'm all about the urgency of sex. So instead of telling me how you like to be touched, say "This is how I need to be touched." Then treat me to a demonstration.
50. Start off a long, lazy lovemaking session by leaving a trail of soft, wet kisses from the side of my neck up to my earlobe.
51. Wet his finger and trace it along the underside of your breast. The skin here is thinner and more responsive.
52. In the middle of reverse cowgirl, lean all the way over and put your mouth around my big toe. Sounds crazy, but it'll make me explode.
53. You know how we sometimes stay in and have movie night? Surprise me by making it porno movie night.
54. Massage my manhood with your silkiest panties. Every so often, put your lips on the side and blow against the cool, sensual fabric.
55. Knead your fingertips into my backside as you give me oral.
56. When we're both home just chilling out, go in the other room and call my cell. Get me all hot and bothered with dirty talk…then appear in the doorway and finish off our phone-sex session in real time.
57. Spread baby oil all over your breasts before we get busy.
58. Have your guy place his penis against your V zone. Slide up and down it several times so he experiences how wet you are without being inside you.
59. One night, tell him in explicit detail about the sexiest move he's ever made and how fired up it got you.
60. After a shower, get him to take you from behind while you're leaning over the bathroom sink and looking in the fogged-up mirror.
61. As you drive home from a night out, place your man's hand between your legs and allow him to play with you all the way home. The more you converse and behave as if nothing is going on, the more exciting it is for him.
62. Let me climax on your body. I know you think it's nasty, but you can't imagine how much I get off on it.
63. One night, while we were out to dinner with her parents, my girl slid her camera phone between her legs, took a photo, and texted it to me. When I checked my cell before dessert, I almost blew a gasket.
64. Have sex on a swing. That weightless, flying feeling will get more than your adrenaline pumping.
65. Making intercourse the finish line can get repetitive. I like to turn oral sex into the main event: I tell my fiancé to lie back on the bed, then I lick him from his belly button all the way down to his balls and back, again and again.
66. Treat me to oral when I'm sitting up. I want to be able to watch you while you're making me feel so good.
67. When I'm really about to climax and the skin on my shaft is craving a rough feel, wrap your hands around the base and twist in opposite directions.
68. Wake up 15 minutes before I do so when I open my eyes, there's a good chance I'll catch you slipping into your panties as you get dressed for work.
69. Turn off the AC or crank up the heat. Sweaty sex is just so primal and animalistic.
70. Give me a play-by-play on how close to orgasm you are so I know exactly when I'll feel you clamp down and pulse against my manhood.
71. Lick along my cut lines — the creases that separate my thighs from my torso. (But don't let your tongue go any further.) They're a surprisingly hot erogenous zone on their own.
72. Hit the sheets with your hair pinned on top of your head, then undo the barrette and let it flow loose.
73. Do it somewhere really wild — an amusement park ride, a taxi, in the bathroom at a pal's party. It may not be the most orgasmic sex ever, but the novelty of it will be thrilling.
74. Most dudes tend to turn sex into a sprint that's all about the final big bang. But if you take things really slow, he'll be able to feel every itty-bitty stroke and lick.
75. Let me watch you play with yourself…from behind.
76. Wear sheer thigh-high stockings, then stand over me naked and let me roll them off one leg at a time.
77. Once I was giving my boyfriend oral sex when I got this idea about pressing a vibrator to the small of his back. The two sensations together were so intense, they practically propelled him out of bed.
78. Wear a supershort denim miniskirt — the kind bad girls always wore when I was growing up. Then be a bad girl by taking my hand when I least expect it and letting me feel your wetness.
79. If you get me to lie down on the bed and rest my legs on your shoulders while you go down on me, I'll feel way more open to sensation.
80. Let me run my manhood up and down your butt cleavage.
81. Have him flick his tongue against your clitoris through panties. The indirect stimulation is hotter than if he were touching you tongue to skin.
82. One rainy day, let's call in sick and vow to set our very own sex record, doing the deed as often as we can.
83. When we're out in public and it would be totally impossible to get away for a quickie, brush your fingers over the outside of my jeans. Do it a few times to realty get a rise out of me.
84. Before we get busy, do a little belly dance for me. I just can't get enough of the way your hips shake.
85. Take a cake-icing tube and draw a circle around my package. Bull's-eye.
86. Wear one of those corset-style bras with the zillion strings I've been seeing around this summer and ask me to untie it. As my frustration builds, so will my desire for you.
87. With my friends nearby, grab my butt, make out with me, and smile at me suggestively. I want them to really envy the fact that you're with me.
88. When I come home from work, my jaw will drop if I find you sprawled out naked on my bed, centerfold-style. Bonus points if you pretend that you have no idea why I'm so turned on.
89. After a night of romantic lovemaking, follow up with a session of down-and-dirty sex. Think four-letter words, leather instead of satin, and props like handcuffs. He'll feel like he's gotten busy with a different chick both nights.
90. Look into my eyes during the deed. The emotional connection is amazing.
91. Tell me that you absolutely have to have me right this second. Don't wait for me to respond, just pounce.
92. In the middle of intercourse, I'll whisper to my guy that the neighbors are watching us. It's not true and he knows it, but the idea that other people might be glimpsing us kicks our lust up a notch or two.
93. Rather than licking my manhood with the flat of your tongue, roll your tongue in a tube around just the tip of my penis and slide it in and out of your mouth.
94. Ask your man to sit on his hands, then treat him to a slo-mo, sensual lap dance. Don't allow him to touch you, but touch him everywhere with your nipples, hair, fingers, and toes.
95. Wherever I have body hair, the skin is super-receptive to touch. So lavish plenty of attention around my nipples, treasure trail, and belly button.
96. After we've both climaxed, let me get a washcloth so we can take turns sponging each other off.
97. Make sure your mouth is tense before you give me oral sex. The firm feel of your usually soft lips will send me through the roof.
98. This is tricky, but the sensations are out of this world: During missionary, move your hips in deliberate counter-clockwise circles, then ask your guy to move in clockwise motions.
99. Cut the fabric out of an old tee shirt so your nipples show through. I'll lend you an old one of mine if you don't want to mess up one of yours.
100. While you keep grinding against me slowly during woman-on-top, spread your lips with your fingers.

Let's stay in bed while we wind down from orgasm. I really love being so close to you, feeling your pulse slow down and listening to your heartbeat return to normal.

Postsex Thoughts
We polled hundreds of dudes on what pops into their heads postpassion. • 35%: "I hope she thought I was good." • 28%: "I just want to sleep." • 24%: "Did she really reach orgasm?" • 13%: "I'm hungry."

SOURCE: COSMO WEB POLL

Is your lust life on the rocks? It should be. Our frosty, frisky tips will turn up the heat between the sheets.

Lots of things are better on ice...oysters, margaritas and, believe it or not, sometimes even sex. Yep, as it turns out, thesecret to the most mind-blowing lovin' of your life is sitting right in your freezer. We know what you're thinking: How can something so freakin' cold make your sex life hotter than ever? "Touching warm skin with ice activates the branch of the nervous system that's responsible for sexual arousal and erection," says Kevin Strang, Ph.D., a physiologist at the University of Wisconsin School of Medicine and Public Health. Plus, adding something unexpected into the mattress mixes up the fun factor. Start with these cool moves.

Freeze Tease
Why do guys go so gaga when women lick lollipops? Because they're imagining what it would feel like to be that, er, sweet stick. Well, sucking on ice has the same arouse-him effect. At a bar or restaurant, take a slender ice cube entirely into your mouth. Suck on it in a casual way (like you have no idea what the hell you're doing to him), allowing the edge of it to peek out between your lips occasionally. He'll be yelling "check, please" in no time.

Stone-Cold Massage
Kick-start the frisky festivities with an erotic rubdown, using a hot/cold combo of massage oil and ice cubes. Put a bit of oil in one hand (rub hands together to warm it up) and use it to knead his bare shoulders. Then take an ice cube and run it over the same area. Repeat the pleasurable process as you work your way down his back, finishing off at his butt.

The Frosty Figure Eight
While you're giving him oral action, use an ice cube to trace a figure eight on his groin or inner thigh. Try to perform both motions at the same pace to make the experience as smooth and seamless as possible. The simultaneous opposing sensations will give him a beyond blissful buzz.

Penis enlargement procedures  are techniques reported to make the human penis larger.

This is frequently the goal of men dissatisfied with their penis size. In general, where there is a perceived need to increase penis size, some  safe self-treatment methods should be tried rather than attempting medical surgery.  This is believed to be effective but extremly dangerous.

Very few men have a very small penis: this is known as a micropenis, and is a very unusual condition which will generally have been detected in early childhood. Penis-enlargement self-treatments are not effective on this condition.

Self-treatment methods

Cosmetic

Rather than attempt to change the actual size of the penis, one may make it appear bigger, by trimming the pubic hair or by losing weight, which may be of particular use if one is overweight.

Pills

"Penis enlargement pills" or ointments are commonly offered over the Internet; these, for the most part, are  scams.Analyses performed by Flora Research of California and by the University of Maryland have uncovered harmful contaminants in a number of "penis enlargement" pills. Contaminants found included mold, yeast, dangerous E. coli bacteria, pesticides, and. Dr. Michael Donnenberg of the University of Maryland has described herbal pills marketed by Performance Marketing Ltd. as having "heavy fecal contamination", possibly from animals grazing near the plants harvested for herbal ingredients. There may however be a placebo effect i.e. a psychological effect of making the user think he has a larger penis, and increasing his confidence, when there is no actual change to his penis size. Some people have also reported that such pills make them feel sexually aroused, and give them harder erections, but again, without any actual growth of the penis.

Penis pump

A penis pump is a cylinder that is fitted over the penis, with a manual or motorized pump to create suction. As the apparatus creates a vacuum around the penis, blood is drawn into the penis causing it to become engorged. The higher the vacuum, the higher the blood-pressure becomes within the penis; excessive pressure causes vascular damage rather than a harder penis.

Pumping must be done very carefully to avoid injury: manufacturers' instructions should be followed. Manual pumps often recommend a gentle pump followed by a pause, then repeated. Over-enthusiastic pumping can burst blood vessels and form blisters. In some cases the testicles can be unexpectedly pulled into the cylinder and cause severe pain and injury. It is also believed that the rim of the cylinder can cut into the skin and over time cause damage to the ligaments surrounding the penis. These dangers are easily avoided by following instructions. 

Penis pumps, usually described in this context as vacuum pumps, have use in conventional treatment of impotence. The pump itself is essentially as described above, although often made to higher standards of quality with a much higher price, and arrangements for distribution by suppliers of medical equipment. One or more flexible compression rings are fitted on the open end of the cylinder, then an erection is created by pumping. The rings are pushed by hand onto the base of the erect penis before releasing the vacuum. This enables the erection to be held even in the presence of problems of the vascular or nervous system which would otherwise lead to immediate loss of erection. In the best circumstances erections can be maintained for a considerable time, but manufacturers' literature recommends that rings should be removed after not more than 30 minutes for safety.

Jelqing and clamping

Jelqing is a method intended to enlarge the penis by increasing the blood pressure in the penis, with the goal of permanently increasing the maximum erect size of the penis. This technique, also called "milking", involves wrapping the thumb and index finger around the penis while semi-erect and repeatedly drawing them away from one's body to force blood into the glans, thus encouraging more vascularity in the corpus cavernosa and associated tissues. Whether jelqing actually works or not is a subject of controversy.

 Jelqing is typically preceded by a warmup with a hot compress on the genitals, and concluded the same way.

Clamping is a technique that uses a constricting device, such as a shoe string, cable clamp(CableClamp/CableCuff), or a tight cock ring. The clamp is firmly tied, clamped, or put, respectively, on the base of the erect penis while "edgeing" (extended masturbation) with a firmly erect penis.

Stretching and hanging

Stretching consists of gripping the glans, or just behind the glans, and pulling for a set period of time. Giving a similar effect, hanging consist of attaching a device that grips the glans or just behind the glans and allows a weight to be suspended for specific amount of time.

The idea behind such exercises is to stretch the tunica albuginea and other various tissues of the penis. The general effect is to elongate the penis, although widening can also occur.

 

Human Pheromones and their effects on sexual behavior have been well documented and researched in the last few years. Below is a list of magazines, newspapers, television and research institutes and their reports about pheromones.

The New York Times - human pheromones at last have the zest of scientific truth. The experiments offer the first solid proof of the existence of human pheromones, compounds produced by one individual that can influence the biology or behavior of another

Web MD - Seventy-four percent of the people tested.. experienced an increase in hugging, kissing and sexual intercourse. If you're looking for the man or woman of your dreams, pheromones.. are most likely playing a large and very clever role in mate attraction.

Unlike fragrances, which are detected by the Olfactory Glands in the nose, Pheromones are detected by the Vomeronasal Organ or VNO. The VNO is located in the Nasal Pit directly under the nose. When the VNO receives a pheromone signal it sends a message to the brain that stimulates the body and creates a subconscious increase in sexual desire.